"Tambra was a brilliant guide and mentor for me in my process (of dissolution of who I thought I was.)
As I emerged from the descent, some really extraordinary things have shifted and opened up on my life.
She's a skilled and masterful guide. I highly recommend working with her. Just getting to spend time with Tambra is an extraordinary gift and I know that you won't be sorry after having had the opportunity of getting to work with her."
Barbara Musser SexyAfterCancer.com
I get to move forward... into my true self and what I was really meant to do.
"Tambra has inspired me in so many ways. Every time I work with her I have clarity about where I want to go and real steps that I can implement right away.
Tambra also brings this wonderful sense of humor whatever it is that we're working on. And she never has any judgment so it doesn't matter where I am, I just get to move forward - through my crap, leaving that behind, stepping into my true self - of who I really am and what I was meant to do.
If you have an opportunity to work with Tambra, I say, "Take it!"
Orna Walters CreatingLoveOnPurpose.com
I learned to be courageous in my own invitations to myself for love.
"Tambra Harck is a remarkable, heart-opening, chakra-balancing, effortless joy-invoking guide and goddess. She creates a safe space to expand into and beyond, a resilient strong container for transformation is what Tambra provides. I cannot say enough good things about that. There so few people willing to stand toe to toe with me in the fire and not give up, and Tambra made it efforless and joyful. Transformation can be yours. All you have to do is call Tambra.
I came to Tambra because I knew that I had a big ol' nasty block. All the rest of my life was reasonably juicy. There were parts that were stagnant and stuck, and that I had frozen in place.
Through working with Tambra, through her gentle guidance and her delicious invitations, I learned to be courageous in my own invitations to myself for love, for greater expression of myself in a natural and a really powerfully feminine, effective in the world way that I had forgotten could exist."
Molly Burke MollyBurke.net
Tambra is a midwife for the soul.
"Tambra is a midwife for the soul. Her gentle, loving nature, coupled with her wise woman ways allows her to probe beyond the obvious to reveal to the essence of the truth buried within each of us.
She will help you bring out the best in yourself and find your own unique voice to express the love that is you in your life, relationships and business."
Sandy Pendleton SacredSisterCircles.com
Goes to the absolute core.
"Previous coaching, mentoring relationships that I had were not providing me a level of understanding about what I was going through. There was that missing piece of the understanding of the ... really deep internal level. You gave me permission for the first time to really relax into what was happening.
There’s something about the work with Tambra that goes to the absolute core that I have not experienced with any other mentor I’ve worked with."
Zara Shea RadiantEntrepreneur.com
I'm so grateful for the work with Tambra.
Since her private VIP mentoring with Tambra, Darlyn released a lot of weight, moved to a new city, now practices yoga and chi gong. Started a new business. She is in such peace in her life, having faith she’s never had before.
"My work reaches my clients so much deeper. I’m so grateful for the work Tambra is doing. I continue to follow and embrace it."
Darlyn Kranz SoulfulbyDesign.com
I'm learning to trust my feelings...
"Tambra has that big picture - and that has always been what I have trouble seeing. So many of the pieces of my life are getting put into a big picture; helping me feel things instead of think things. I am learning to trust my feelings - and that is something that Tambra has helped me do -- so much!
Dr. Arlene Taveroff CreateABrandThatRocks.com
The time is here... for you, for us and for all we love.
A glimpse into the transformation of an Emergent Woman's Soul Journey can't be fully expressed without sharing my own experience.
After all, it's how we each came to this time and space, as mentor-minister to women who find themselves (quite literally) on this path. (If you are familiar with the 5 Stages of this transformational Soul Journey, you'll see it in my story.)
Short-ish version:
Since childhood I was driven to create, succeed, improve myself, to learn and apply my varied interests to practice. Inspiring to some, an irritant to others. I felt both revved up by my own ambition, and like I could never get where I was sure to be heading. Everything seemed like a test; and my existence required that I find the best answer to every equation, challenge or problem on my test. Sound familiar?
It wasn't all hardship. I loved learning. I loved the high of creating something new, shaping experiences and discoveries for myself and others. I studied mysticism, psychology, did yoga and meditation, and read books none of my friends heard of. But something was not quite *right* with me, inside, in my thoughts, my emotions, my knowing.
From the deep recesses, echoes were sounding with the call of my Soul, "Come Home."
And BAM! My descent begins. Car accident. Long time lover and man-friend breaks up with me -- get this. A slow, near-death of my business. Injuries wouldn't heal, pain wouldn't subside. Bank account went from black to blood red. I lost my home. I moved in with my parents. Clients -- who used to be lined up to work with me -- were now not there.
Committed to find the answer, to recover my losses, to get the next client, to get back my rejecting lover. Some solutions worked for a while. I sat in meditation. I formed mastermind groups. I wrote and delivered new speeches. I buried my self respect. I got to continue having sex even if a part of me died each time. I continued to coach and offer spiritual counseling, but looking back, I have no idea how I could have; and it was the only time that I didn't feel like I was drowning.
A glimpse through a crack: I heard of an ancient poem, that may date back to 3500 BC. (Yes, it's a long time ago.) Jungian analysts use this myth to map a "feminine descent." That's where I was: descending. Deep into the dark crevasse of the Underworld. Raw. Stripped bare.
I was relieved to hear the most gruesome aspects of the dissolving experience. I could see. Oh, my gawd, I could see. This experience was not just about me, it wasn't even unique to me. More than that, it wasn't even about what era I was born in or who my parents were or that I grew up in the midst of the feminist movement, or any other condition of my environment. This was a soul-level transformation. A Soul Journey.
Oh, the grace of a glimpse through timelessness and space. I felt for a moment I could breathe..
You may want to hear me to say, and that's all it took. But you know that was not "the end" of difficult times. Transformation does not happen through a glimpse of insight. It comes through moving into a new way of BEing that the glimpse awakened.
Guided by my dreams and other expressions of the language of my soul, I stopped fighting against and began to truly surrender to the Call. Releasing illusions of identity, I surrendered thoughts, beliefs, habits, values, lies, belongings, titles, that shackled and defined me.
Internal as all this sounds, and like one might have to go live in solitude to do it; I was managing director and spiritual guidance counselor for an international company. I lived the life of a monk, deep in spiritual study and service; and I had a highly visible and influential position. (Can you hear the dance between the masculine and feminine at play here, the spiritual and the ordinary: dance this Soul Journey invites you into.
My vision for Life seemed both new and restored. My appreciation and deep understanding for all of life as sacred was unlike what I'd known before. Innate Wisdom had always been in me, accessible except now I wasn't rejecting by mySelf, my Soul, my Divine expression, or the grace of my Calling to serve humanity at this time of great change.
Emergence. It means Integrated, Whole, living from the meeting place of masculine and feminine, Divine and Human, above and below, mystical and practical. A convergence takes place again and again. And again.
There is no destination along this unfolding, spirally journey. I continue to discover deeper understanding of it through you.